Latest Life Journeys

The Science of Solitude: Why Being Alone Isn’t the Same as Being Lonely

The Science of Solitude: Why Being Alone Isn’t the Same as Being Lonely

We've all been there—a quiet room, just you, your thoughts, and the loud ticking of the clock. It may seem daunting, but solitude can be a powerful ally, distinct from the often heartbreaking experience of loneliness. Over the years, I've learned that these two states of being are not synonymous, although they are often confused. Here’s my story, intertwined with insights from science and psychology, to help you embrace solitude without fear of loneliness.

Seasonal Transitions and Mental Health: Fall's Emotional Shifts, Explained

Seasonal Transitions and Mental Health: Fall's Emotional Shifts, Explained

As the vibrant greens of summer surrender to the burnt oranges, deep reds, and soft yellows of fall, we're reminded of the beauty in transformation. Fall is a time of immense change, not just in the foliage that surrounds us but within us too. For many, this season heralds a period of introspection, a time when the external shift mirrors an internal one. Let's delve into the emotional shifts that accompany fall, grounded in both personal experience and expert knowledge.

How to Handle Friendships That Fade Without Bitterness

How to Handle Friendships That Fade Without Bitterness

Friendships are like seasons—they transform, evolve, and sometimes fade away. Navigating the dynamics of friendships can be both beautiful and challenging. I've walked this road before, confronting the heartbreak that comes when valued connections dwindle. Through vulnerability, self-discovery, and a gentle resiliency, I've learned to handle fading friendships without bitterness. Let me guide you through this journey with insights and reflections rooted in personal experience.

How to Rebuild Your Identity After a Life Pivot (Without Rushing the Process)

How to Rebuild Your Identity After a Life Pivot (Without Rushing the Process)

When life throws you an unexpected curveball, whether it's a career change, a breakup, or a personal revelation, it can feel like your very identity is suddenly up for debate. As someone who has weathered a few of these life pivots—and lived to tell the tale—I can say this: rebuilding your identity isn’t just about filling the void left by change, but about exploring the possibilities it invites. Today, I’ll walk you through some reflections and strategies to help you on this journey, while paying homage to the rhythm and patience the process deserves.

Small Morning Rituals That Quiet the Mind and Anchor the Day

Small Morning Rituals That Quiet the Mind and Anchor the Day

In the quiet stillness of early morning, before the clamor of emails, meetings, and social media notifications, there's a sacred window of opportunity. This time offers more than just a moment of peace; it's an invitation to set the tone for the entire day. In recent years, I've come to realize the transformative power of small morning rituals. These aren’t grand gestures but rather simple practices that ground and reassure me, offering a sense of intentionality and presence that often gets lost in today’s fast-paced world.

What It Really Means to Be 'In Between Chapters'—And How to Sit With It

What It Really Means to Be 'In Between Chapters'—And How to Sit With It

Have you ever picked up a book, read a few chapters, and paused to savor what's unfolding, only to find yourself a bit hesitant about turning the page? In our lives, there are times when we find ourselves in between chapters—much like characters paused in narrative limbo. This state is more than just a gap; it’s a powerful pause filled with potential, anxiety, and introspection. But what does it really mean to be 'in between chapters' in life, and how can we learn to sit with it comfortably?

The Psychology of Starting Over: How to Begin Again With Purpose

The Psychology of Starting Over: How to Begin Again With Purpose

Starting over. It's a phrase that evokes a simultaneous sense of dread and opportunity. If life were a book, the idea of starting again is akin to flipping a page to a fresh chapter, the ink barely dry on the one you've just left behind. For many, the concept of starting over comes with a whirlwind of emotions: fear of the unknown, excitement for new beginnings, and the pressure of making the "right" choices this time around. But how do we start over with intention and focus? Is there a psychological roadmap that can guide us through this transformation?